I know I might not have been the profile everyone had put in their “Tender for Rabbi’s” search , but that first weekend, I felt that spark of connection and it seemed like one of those rare bashert moments in life – when fate and free will come together…
Judaism only works if it makes our busy lives better, and I believe Judaism and Jewish tradition, if lived intelligently, is a technology for making our lives richer and more joyous, more connected – Our tradition is an epic life hack, if we engage it actively.
When people think of Judaism and Jews, I don’t think that ‘a culture of gratitude’ is the first thing that pops into our heads.
We remember that our people k’vetched constantly after leaving Egypt.
We know that Jonah wanted to die when God forgave Nineveh.
Moses himself said, “these people are just too much for me to handle.”
The prophets railed about, well, everything.
And Yom Kippur feels more about beating ourselves up than giving thanks.
And I’ll admit, that I have always been a bit suspicious of people are overly grateful. It’s a bit too Candide for me, a bit “it’s the best of all possible worlds and it couldn’t possibly be any better.”